1. Get a Crucifix and put it somewhere in your home where you will see it every day, as a visible reminder of what it is to love as Christ loves.
2. Simplify your lifestyle. Accept the fact that you cannot do it all, so re-prioritize and do godly things first and foremost, and then if there's time, the other things.
3. Find a church that is unlocked during the week, and spend time in God's House, alone with the Alone. You don't have to talk to anybody. Just talk to God, and let God talk to you.
4. Pray daily and ask God to give you a more full and personal understanding of Christ's Passion, His suffer, and how His Passion becomes yours.
To love is to suffer. For now. To suffer for the sake of Christ is to take on His Passion and make it ours, in His Name.
